380. 7 Thoughts That Are Making You Feel Disconnected in Your Relationship (and What to Think Instead)

April 23
32 mins

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Episode Description

This episode is all about how your thinking is shaping your experience of your relationships—and how to shift it in simple, powerful ways.

We talk about:

  • Why we default to thinking the problem is “out there”

  • How your thoughts create your emotional experience (not the other person)

  • Why disconnection often starts internally, not externally

  • The “House of Joy” mindset in relationships

  1. “They should be different” → creates resistance

  2. “I shouldn’t have to go first” → creates emotional gridlock

  3. “They always / they never” → creates distorted thinking

  4. “We’re just not as connected anymore” → creates more disconnection

  5. “They don’t care” → creates shutdown

  6. “This shouldn’t be this hard” → creates discouragement

  7. “This just isn’t working” → creates emotional withdrawal

  • Thinking your highest thoughts about the people you love

  • Creating connection intentionally (instead of waiting for it)

  • Practicing small, meaningful moments of love and presence


The 7 thoughts that create disconnection:What actually helps:Becoming the version of yourself you want to be in the relationship


Why You Feel Disconnected in Your Relationships Webinar: 

WEDNESDAY April 29th, at NOON eastern! 

https://www.ediewadsworthcoaching.com/connect

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