Episode Description
In this episode, I discuss the anxious (ambivalent–preoccupied) attachment style — a pattern marked by intensity, dependence, and a longing for reassurance.
I address how this attachment pattern develops, how it can appear in adulthood, and what kinds of therapeutic and holistic supports can help someone move toward a more secure attachment style. Specifically, I discuss:
* How inconsistency in early caregiving (and even threats or experiences of abandonment) can lead to an anxious attachment style and problems with emotional regulation.
* The key differences between anxious and avoidant attachment patterns
* What the infant-toddler attachment research revealed about early caregiving and attachment dynamics
* How anxious attachment can manifest as overwhelm, and fear of abandonment in adult relationships
* Links between attachment and biochemical factors such as inflammation, methylation, high copper, high pyrroles, mast cell activation, and even biotoxin illness such as mold toxicity.
* Psychotherapy approaches that promote regulation and security — including learning about healthy boundaries
* The importance of structure, daily routines, and developing a reliable “inner parent”
* Mind–body strategies such as guided meditation, goal-focused journaling, and creative learning
* How addressing both emotional and biochemical roots can support long-term healing and resilience
With awareness, compassion, education and support, we can rewire our nervous system toward greater calm, clarity, and self-trust.
As always, I welcome your thoughts and questions.
Until next time,
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