Letting go after betrayal sounds simple, but it's some of the hardest work we'll ever do. In this encore episode, I talk honestly about why letting go feels so impossible after infidelity and how we often hold ourselves in pain without realizing it. I walk through the most common ways we stay stuck—replaying details, reminding ourselves of the betrayal, or trying to punish our partner in order to feel safe—and why those strategies end up hurting us more than protecting us.

I also explain how trauma and re-experiencing responses can keep our minds and bodies on high alert, even long after the event has passed. From there, I share practical ways to begin loosening your grip, including cognitive shifts, mindfulness, and body-based healing approaches. Letting go isn't about minimizing what happened—it's about choosing peace and trusting that you can handle whatever comes next.

This is an intentional, courageous act of faith, and it's one that can bring real relief.

In this episode, I cover:

• Why replaying the betrayal keeps you stuck
• How trauma affects both the mind and body
• Practical ways to begin letting go safely
• Why mindfulness and somatic work matter

If this episode resonates with you and you're ready for support, I invite you to reach out and explore working together.

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