Episode Description
What happens when someone finally believes the story you’ve spent years carrying alone?
Board-certified polygraph examiner David Goldberg joins Giving Pain Purpose for a powerful conversation about truth, trauma, validation, and the profound impact of finally feeling heard. With more than 30 years of experience investigating abuse, assault, and complex trauma, David shares how his work goes far beyond determining whether someone is telling the truth.
Together, David and Lyndsay explore why trauma survivors can struggle to trust their own memories, the lasting damage of being dismissed or disbelieved, and how validation can become an unexpected part of the healing process. They also unpack common misconceptions about polygraph testing and its role in relationships, personal healing, and the pursuit of justice.
At its heart, this conversation isn't really about a machine or a test. It's about what happens when someone is given the space to tell their truth—and someone is finally there to listen.
For anyone who has ever questioned their own story or carried pain in silence, this episode is a reminder that being heard can be powerful—and your story matters.
Episode Highlights:
(00:02) Lyndsay opens up about lying, truth and self-protection
(03:17) Introducing David Goldberg
(04:19) What a polygraph actually is and how it works
(06:04) How your body reveals the truth
(07:27) What happens if you're nervous during a polygraph
(08:09) How examiners reduce anxiety before testing
(09:45) Who polygraphs are really for
(16:00) Polygraphs for sexual assault survivors and victims
(22:00) False accusations and how polygraphs protect the innocent
(27:00) How polygraph results hold up legally
(35:42) Advice for anyone who has been dismissed or not believed
(36:05) What a professional examiner's job really is
(37:45) Polygraphs for people in abusive relationships
(38:28) How to find David and closing thoughts
Find David Goldberg Online Here:
Website: www.executiveprotectiongrp.com
Instagram: @thedavidgoldberg
Facebook: Executive Protection Group Polygraph Service
YouTube: @the_davidgoldberg
Podcast: Inside The Polygraph with David Goldberg
LinkedIn: David Goldberg
Find Giving Pain Purpose Online Here:
Website: givingpainpurpose.com
Instagram: @givingpainpurpose
Facebook: The Giving Pain Purpose Podcast
LinkedIn: Lyndsay Soprano
YouTube: @givingpainpurpose
Shop: thegivingpainpurposeshop.com
Subscribe on YouTube | Merch Shop is OPEN!! | COMING SOON: The Pain Hub - A Women's Healing Community. Subscribe Now!
Unfiltered convos. Dark humor. Real healing.
This is where pain meets purpose — and you’re not doing it alone.
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Board-certified polygraph examiner David Goldberg joins Giving Pain Purpose for a powerful conversation about truth, trauma, validation, and the profound impact of finally feeling heard. With more than 30 years of experience investigating abuse, assault, and complex trauma, David shares how his work goes far beyond determining whether someone is telling the truth.
Together, David and Lyndsay explore why trauma survivors can struggle to trust their own memories, the lasting damage of being dismissed or disbelieved, and how validation can become an unexpected part of the healing process. They also unpack common misconceptions about polygraph testing and its role in relationships, personal healing, and the pursuit of justice.
At its heart, this conversation isn't really about a machine or a test. It's about what happens when someone is given the space to tell their truth—and someone is finally there to listen.
For anyone who has ever questioned their own story or carried pain in silence, this episode is a reminder that being heard can be powerful—and your story matters.
Episode Highlights:
(00:02) Lyndsay opens up about lying, truth and self-protection
(03:17) Introducing David Goldberg
(04:19) What a polygraph actually is and how it works
(06:04) How your body reveals the truth
(07:27) What happens if you're nervous during a polygraph
(08:09) How examiners reduce anxiety before testing
(09:45) Who polygraphs are really for
(16:00) Polygraphs for sexual assault survivors and victims
(22:00) False accusations and how polygraphs protect the innocent
(27:00) How polygraph results hold up legally
(35:42) Advice for anyone who has been dismissed or not believed
(36:05) What a professional examiner's job really is
(37:45) Polygraphs for people in abusive relationships
(38:28) How to find David and closing thoughts
Find David Goldberg Online Here:
Website: www.executiveprotectiongrp.com
Instagram: @thedavidgoldberg
Facebook: Executive Protection Group Polygraph Service
YouTube: @the_davidgoldberg
Podcast: Inside The Polygraph with David Goldberg
LinkedIn: David Goldberg
Find Giving Pain Purpose Online Here:
Website: givingpainpurpose.com
Instagram: @givingpainpurpose
Facebook: The Giving Pain Purpose Podcast
LinkedIn: Lyndsay Soprano
YouTube: @givingpainpurpose
Shop: thegivingpainpurposeshop.com
Subscribe on YouTube | Merch Shop is OPEN!! | COMING SOON: The Pain Hub - A Women's Healing Community. Subscribe Now!
Unfiltered convos. Dark humor. Real healing.
This is where pain meets purpose — and you’re not doing it alone.
++
Want to be a guest on Giving Pain Purpose with Lyndsay Soprano? Send her a message on PodMatch, here:
Be a Guest on The Show