This week, Vee and Elle go deep with Catherine Drysdale — a dating and intimacy expert who accidentally stepped into her power as a mommy dom and never looked back. She breaks down the truth behind dominance that no one talks about: it’s not about pain, it’s about presence, boundaries, and knowing exactly what you want. We get into service subs, pleasure-first dynamics, and why she refuses to center men’s pleasure in her sex life. From making men clean her apartment to teaching women how to access confidence through their own bodies, this episode is a full permission slip to be selfish in the bedroom. If you’ve ever wondered what it looks like to own your desire unapologetically, this is it.

Chapters 

Meet The Woman With 72 Orgasms And Zero Tolerance For Bullshit (00:00)

What Is Mommy Domming And First Sub Who Showed Up And Started Cleaning Her Apartment (2:33)

Why Boundaries Make Kink Safer And Hotter (07:56)

When Dominance Turns Into Abuse And How To Spot The Difference (10:58)

Maybe You Are Already a Mommy Dom And How Confidence Is The Real Kink No One Talks About (18:51)

Where To Start: Follow Along With NLP Technique For Rewiring Your Brain For Confidence And Desire (28:01)

Follow Along With EFT Tapping (34:41)

Constructing A Scene: Blindfolds Tip And Working On Asking For What You Want (42:09)

Praise Vs Humiliation (47:53)

The Kink BDSM Test That Will Change Your Sex Life (52:07)

I’m Too Nice To Be A Dom… Or Am I? Tips To Get Started (55:40)

Soft Limit Vs Hard Limits (01:02:15)

Overidentifying With A Role Can Limit Exploration (01:07:15)

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Guest Info Catherine Drysdale
Dating & Intimacy Expert | Columbia-trained Clinical Psychology Graduate Student
Instagram: @iamcatherinedrysdale
TikTok: @iamcatherinedrysdale

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