Episode Description
I'm bringing this one back from the vault. I recorded it in April, before this month took me through Nigeria, Ghana, and Rwanda, and before I missed an episode for the first time because I didn't have reliable internet. It still holds up. The next two episodes are going to get specific about this trip, the Nigerian visa that almost didn't come through in time, and what I learned about connecting with strangers.
I left a fourteen-year teaching career without knowing what would come next. I remember standing on a balcony in Canada that September, watching a school bus go by, and feeling relief instead of grief. That relief was the confirmation, not a plan. Since then I've spent three months living as a digital nomad in Southeast Asia and built a life I would not have believed was available to me back then. None of it started with feeling ready. It started with one decision I was willing to name.
In this episode:
- The planning meeting that broke something
- Watching the school bus go by
- The conditions that kept multiplying
- Clarity comes in the decision
- Three months as a digital nomad
- Naming the trip as a decision
This episode is for you if:
- you keep waiting for one more condition to be met before you'll book the trip
- you're a woman over 40 who left something certain for something you couldn't yet imagine
- you think clarity has to arrive before the decision instead of inside it
- you've been telling people about a trip for longer than six months and still haven't named a date
- you've caught yourself treating "someday" as a real plan instead of a way of avoiding one
Resources mentioned:
- Laurie Santos's course The Science of Wellbeint
- Barbara Oakley's Learning How to Learn
Freedom Looks Like This is a podcast for women over 40 who want to travel solo, or who already do, and want to go deeper. Host Damianne President explores self-trust, decision-making, and what it actually takes to stop waiting and start moving. New episodes every Wednesday. For solo female travelers, midlife women, and anyone who suspects that the real barrier isn't logistics.
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