Gwen and Tim are broadcasting live from FinCon, where we've been enjoying presentations and reconnecting with friends. We provide our takes on a Reddit story from a woman who refuses to co-sign a $55,000 truck loan for her husband, especially because he still owes her $8,000 from an inheritance she used to pay off his credit card debt . We assert that the wife is underreacting and that the husband's financial irresponsibility and "patriarchal bullshit" are huge red flags.