Lent isn’t just “trying harder.” It’s a Church-wide reset—entered intentionally, with a plan, and with God’s help. As this episode releases on Shrove Tuesday, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks explain why today (and Ash Wednesday) matters, how confession and a concrete Lenten plan set you up for real change, and why the goal isn’t perfection—it’s growth in virtue and deeper communion with God.

Through the lens of relationships—self, others, and God—they contrast two approaches: “Fat Tuesday” as last-chance indulgence versus Shrove Tuesday as spiritual preparation. They also explore how shared momentum (everyone doing Lent together) makes lasting habit-change more achievable, and why a meaningful, realistic step sustained for 40 days can reshape your life long after Easter.

Key Ideas

Shrove Tuesday is historically tied to shriving: preparing for Lent through confession and renewed intention.

Lent works best with a plan: pick a meaningful step that’s realistic enough to sustain for 40 days.

Virtue grows like training: discipline isn’t the goal—holiness is, and virtue is the habit of choosing the good.

Avoid “outside pressure” spirituality; listen for what God is already stirring inside you (desire, conviction, readiness).

Lent isn’t a solo project: we lean on God’s help and the reinforcement of the whole Church moving together.

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