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What if the version of success you've been chasing is actually the thing keeping you trapped?
Today we welcome back executive coach and bestselling author Keren Eldad (Gilded: Breaking Free from the Cage of Ambition, Perfectionism, and the Relentless Pursuit of More) to unpack the hidden emotional architecture beneath ambition, manifestation, perfectionism, and the relentless pursuit of "more."
Jessica and Keren explore why so many high-achievers manifest the external markers of success—money, relationships, recognition, opportunities—yet still feel anxious, disconnected, or deeply unfulfilled. If that sounds familiar, this episode offers a roadmap for anyone ready to stop building gilded cages and start living from authenticity, openness, and genuine self-worth.
As we navigate this new chapter of soul-led visibility, this conversation is one you won't want to miss. Your higher self is calling.
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In this episode we talk about:
- Redefining ambition beyond hustle culture
- The emotional cost of perfectionism and overachievement
- Why manifestation can still feel empty after success arrives
- The concept of the “gilded cage”
- Scarcity disguised as ambition
- How nervous system patterns shape manifestation
- Why linear approaches often don’t work
- Identity shifts versus temporary breakthroughs
- The emotional medicine of “doing the opposite”
- Authenticity versus externally driven success
- Self-worth and openness in relationships
- Recognizing survival patterns in high achievers
- Expanding beyond fear-based decision making
- Building a life that feels aligned instead of performative
Mentioned In the Episode:
- Expanded x Ep. 339 - How to Stop Burnout & Perfectionism and Start Manifesting with Ease
- Find our Be Seen Challenge plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Energetic Boundaries DI, Self Love DI, and the Be Seen Quiz)
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HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips
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The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.
At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.
Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to:
– Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth
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– Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth
– Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true self
With over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live.
Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest.
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