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Few things shake us as deeply as the end of a relationship. Breakups can feel like grief, rejection, confusion, and loss all at once.
In this episode of Ella Podcasts, we explore why relationships end, why some people stay too long, why others move on quickly, and what heartbreak really asks of us when love falls apart.
This is a deeply human conversation about attachment, hope, and the stories we tell ourselves when someone leaves. Because breakups are rarely just about one moment—they’re often shaped by unmet needs, fear of abandonment, changing identities, resentment, or the painful realization that two people are no longer growing in the same direction.
Joining me are:
🔹 Dr. Jonathan Marshall – Psychologist and former professor
🔹 Ina Hammer – Men’s emotional health and wellbeing coach
🔹 Samir Kothari – Investment fund manager sharing personal perspectives
Together, we discuss:
• why relationships really break down
• how attachment styles shape love and loss
• why heartbreak can feel like trauma
• the role of social media in modern relationships
• whether trust can be rebuilt after infidelity
• what actually helps when you’re healing
Key takeaways:
• Breakups are rarely simple—even when the relationship wasn’t right
• Healing takes time and isn’t linear
• Missing someone doesn’t mean they were right for you
• Letting go often means seeing the relationship clearly
• You don’t have to rush your healing
Heartbreak can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t last forever. With time, support, and honesty, it is possible to find your way back to yourself.
🔔𝐃𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐮𝐛𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐛𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐥 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐮𝐩𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬.
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