Confidence is not about loving how you look. It is about resilience, safety, and agency in eating disorder recovery.

In this thoughtful and grounded conversation, Dr. Marianne Miller sits down with therapist, educator, and podcast host Rachelle Heinemann, LMHC, LPC @raquelleheinemann, to explore the deeper emotional and relational layers beneath body image distress and disordered eating.

Rather than focusing only on surface-level body image strategies, this episode examines how confidence develops through resilience, meaningful connection, personal agency, and small intentional steps taken over time. Together, they discuss why traditional approaches to body image may feel incomplete, how unsafe environments can intensify negative body thoughts, and what it truly means to cultivate confidence in the context of eating disorder recovery.

This conversation offers compassionate, clinically informed insight for anyone navigating body image struggles, low self-esteem, chronic disordered eating patterns, or the long path of healing.

What We Explore in This Episode

The relationship between body image, confidence, and disordered eating.

Why confidence is better understood as resilience rather than appearance or personality.
How safety, stress, and environmental context influence body image distress.
The role of agency, assertiveness, and small achievable steps in recovery.
Why meaningful, supportive relationships are foundational to confidence building.
How deeper emotional needs often drive body image pain more than physical appearance.
Practical ways to begin cultivating resilience in eating disorder recovery.

A Different Way to Understand Confidence

Many conversations about confidence center on visibility, charisma, or loving one’s body at all times. In this episode, Raquelle offers a more compassionate and realistic framework: confidence as an internal, flexible resilience that can grow even when fear, uncertainty, or body image distress are still present.

Through clinical stories and lived therapeutic insight, this discussion reframes confidence as something that develops through curiosity, connection, and repeated small acts of courage, rather than perfection or performance.

About Rachelle Heinemann, LMHC, LPC

Rachelle Heinemann is a licensed mental health counselor in New York and a licensed professional counselor in New Jersey. She specializes in working with individuals experiencing disordered eating, eating disorders, anxiety, depression, and relationship challenges.

She teaches courses on eating disorders and body image, provides continuing education for clinicians, and hosts the podcast Understanding Disordered Eating. Raquelle also contributes leadership within the International Association of Eating Disorder Professionals New York.

Her confidence and resilience workbook, discussed in this episode, guides readers through curiosity, connection, and small actionable steps toward meaningful and sustainable change.

Resources and Links

Rachelle’s Confidence & Resilience Workbook:

(Use code PODCAST to download for free.)

Understanding Disordered Eating Podcast
Bergen Mental Health Group
Follow Rachelle on Instagram: @rachelleheinemann

Related Episodes

DIVING DEEP to Help Folks Recover From Eating Disorders, With Rachelle Heinemann, LMHC, CEDS, @rachelleheinemann on Apple and Spotify.

When Exercise Becomes Punishment: Body Image, Shame, & Disordered Eating With Dr. Lisa Folden @healthyphit on Apple and Spotify.

Work With Dr. Marianne Miller

Dr. Marianne Miller is a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in:

Eating disorder recovery
ARFID and selective eating
Binge eating disorder
Neurodivergent-affirming care
Body liberation and weight-inclusive healing

Therapy and coaching are available in California, Texas, Washington, DC, and worldwide.

You can also explore:

The ARFID & Selective Eating Course
The Binge Eating Recovery Membership
More episodes of the Dr. Marianne-Land Podcast on body image, neurodivergence, and long-term recovery

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