Timestamps

00:00 Dopey Wednesday theme song
01:05 Dave on a bad meeting, anger, stress, and the spiritual axiom
03:25 Introducing DJ Fat Tony and Recover Me
04:50 Justin’s email about quitting 7-OH
11:15 Patreon and Spotify comments from Amy Dresner episode
17:20 DJ Fat Tony returns to Dopey
18:00 Recover Me, sex addiction, and recovery after recovery
19:45 Trauma therapy and the fallout from writing I Don’t Take Requests
24:10 Sex addiction, childhood abuse, and toxic relationships
31:10 Trauma therapy, drawing, anger, and old wounds
36:00 Meetings, ego, and “The Tony Show”
39:45 Recovery addiction and stepping back to actually work the program
44:40 Sex addiction, Grindr, SAA/SLA, and getting caught
50:10 Apps, reviews, gambling addiction parallels, and “gron/groff”
54:50 Gay hookup culture, cruising, Sniffies, and George Michael
59:30 Reworking the steps and finding a new connection
1:03:50 “You can’t, we can,” honesty, ADHD, and actually taking things in
1:06:20 Tony’s father, resentment, amends, and sobriety
1:09:30 Higher power, prayer, and putting fear into the universe
1:13:10 Reclaiming the word “cunt”
1:17:40 Touring, marriage, temptation, and why life is too good now
1:18:40 Recording the audiobook and fake shame
1:21:20 Closing thoughts, Safe Spot, stickers, and voicemails
1:23:00 “Good So Bad”