Why do narcissists seem to move on instantly after a breakup or divorce?

In this episode, Sam and Leah break down the psychology behind “monkey branching” — a common narcissistic relationship pattern where someone lines up a new partner before leaving the current relationship. For many women, watching their ex jump into a new relationship immediately can feel deeply personal, confusing, and incredibly painful.

But the truth is, this behavior has far more to do with narcissistic supply, control, and avoiding emotional accountability than it does with your worth.

Sam and Leah discuss:

• What monkey branching actually is

• Why narcissists rarely stay single

• The role of narcissistic supply and dopamine chasing

• Why the new relationship often happens so quickly

• How narcissists rewrite the history of the relationship

• Why this behavior creates trauma bonds and deep confusion

• How to stop personalizing their actions and start healing

If you're navigating divorce or co-parenting with a narcissistic ex, understanding these patterns can help you regain clarity, protect your peace, and start rebuilding your life with confidence.

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