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When Diego turns 12, he’s diagnosed with a life-threatening illness, and his entire world turns inside out. The family goes into survival mode. Sick and angry Diego acts out — and Laurie and Dan struggle with how to parent him.

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When Laurie Stern set out to adopt a baby from Guatemala in 1999, she thought the process would be pretty straightforward. Lots of people were doing it.

But the adoption was held up just as she went to Guatemala to get her son, Diego. That began a journey of discovery. What unfolds is the story of why international adoption peaked — and then collapsed — in Guatemala. It is also the story of how Diego, now 24, learned to be a Maya man with deep roots both in his birth village and Minnesota, where he still lives.

Now, Diego has questions about his adoption, too — like why tiny Guatemala was such a popular choice for many adoptive parents in the U.S. and Europe in the early 2000s. As one of more than 50,000 Guatemalan adoptees, Diego’s still figuring out what it means to be Guatemalan, American, indigenous Tzutujil, and an adoptee raised by white parents in St. Paul, Minnesota.

At its heart, Defining Diego is a deeply personal narrative: of a mother and son grappling with big questions about identity and health, and the meaning of home and family. Using 20+ years of the family’s archive recordings, we hear Diego grow up — and begin his own journey of self-discovery

Defining Diego is part of The Binge - subscribe to listen to all episodes, all at once, ad-free right now.

From serial killer nurses to psychic scammers – The Binge is your home for true crime stories that pull you in and never let go.

Follow The Binge Crimes and The Binge Cases wherever you get your podcasts to get new stories on the first of the month, every month.

Hit ‘Subscribe’ at the top of the Defining Diego show page on Apple Podcasts or visit GetTheBinge.com.

The Binge – feed your true crime obsession.

A Sony Music Entertainment production.

Find out more about The Binge and other podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us @sonypodcasts.","category","Society & Culture\n Relationships\n Documentary\nKids & Family\n Parenting","audio",true,"show_type","serial","uuid","fundings",[],"guid","","is_private","transcript_eligible","episodes",[91,92,93,94,95,96,97,98,99,100,101,102,103,104,105,106,107,108,109,110,111,112,113,114,115,116],"episodeFrequency","Weekly","estimatedNextEpisodeAt","2025-04-29T09:00:00Z","episodeCount",26,"hasSeasons","seasonCount",2,{"_73":287,"_57":288,"_59":289,"_55":290,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":291,"_126":292,"_128":129,"_130":70,"_9":10},{"_73":281,"_57":282,"_59":283,"_55":284,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":285,"_126":286,"_128":280,"_130":44,"_138":90,"_139":200,"_9":10},{"_73":274,"_57":275,"_59":276,"_55":277,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":278,"_126":279,"_128":280,"_130":44,"_138":90,"_139":193,"_9":10},{"_73":268,"_57":269,"_59":270,"_55":271,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":272,"_126":273,"_128":137,"_130":44,"_138":90,"_139":186,"_9":10},{"_73":262,"_57":263,"_59":264,"_55":265,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":266,"_126":267,"_128":137,"_130":44,"_138":90,"_139":179,"_9":10},{"_73":256,"_57":257,"_59":258,"_55":259,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":260,"_126":261,"_128":137,"_130":44,"_138":90,"_139":172,"_9":10},{"_73":12,"_57":251,"_59":252,"_55":253,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":254,"_126":255,"_128":137,"_130":44,"_138":90,"_139":165,"_9":10},{"_73":245,"_57":246,"_59":247,"_55":248,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":249,"_126":250,"_128":137,"_130":44,"_138":90,"_139":158,"_9":10},{"_73":239,"_57":240,"_59":241,"_55":242,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":243,"_126":244,"_128":137,"_130":44,"_138":90,"_139":151,"_9":10},{"_73":233,"_57":234,"_59":235,"_55":236,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":237,"_126":238,"_128":137,"_130":44,"_138":90,"_139":90,"_9":10},{"_73":227,"_57":228,"_59":229,"_55":230,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":231,"_126":232,"_128":137,"_130":44,"_138":90,"_139":34,"_9":10},{"_73":221,"_57":222,"_59":223,"_55":224,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":225,"_126":226,"_128":129,"_130":44,"_9":10},{"_73":215,"_57":216,"_59":217,"_55":218,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":219,"_126":220,"_128":129,"_130":44,"_9":10},{"_73":208,"_57":209,"_59":210,"_55":211,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":212,"_126":213,"_128":137,"_130":44,"_138":34,"_139":214,"_9":10},{"_73":201,"_57":202,"_59":203,"_55":204,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":205,"_126":206,"_128":137,"_130":44,"_138":34,"_139":207,"_9":10},{"_73":194,"_57":195,"_59":196,"_55":197,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":198,"_126":199,"_128":137,"_130":44,"_138":34,"_139":200,"_9":10},{"_73":187,"_57":188,"_59":189,"_55":190,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":191,"_126":192,"_128":137,"_130":44,"_138":34,"_139":193,"_9":10},{"_73":180,"_57":181,"_59":182,"_55":183,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":184,"_126":185,"_128":137,"_130":44,"_138":34,"_139":186,"_9":10},{"_73":173,"_57":174,"_59":175,"_55":176,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":177,"_126":178,"_128":137,"_130":44,"_138":34,"_139":179,"_9":10},{"_73":166,"_57":167,"_59":168,"_55":169,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":170,"_126":171,"_128":137,"_130":44,"_138":34,"_139":172,"_9":10},{"_73":159,"_57":160,"_59":161,"_55":162,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":163,"_126":164,"_128":137,"_130":44,"_138":34,"_139":165,"_9":10},{"_73":152,"_57":153,"_59":154,"_55":155,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":156,"_126":157,"_128":137,"_130":44,"_138":34,"_139":158,"_9":10},{"_73":145,"_57":146,"_59":147,"_55":148,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":149,"_126":150,"_128":137,"_130":44,"_138":34,"_139":151,"_9":10},{"_73":140,"_57":141,"_59":142,"_55":143,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":144,"_126":136,"_128":137,"_130":44,"_138":34,"_139":34,"_9":10},{"_73":131,"_57":132,"_59":133,"_55":134,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":135,"_126":136,"_128":137,"_130":44,"_138":34,"_139":90,"_9":10},{"_73":117,"_57":118,"_59":119,"_55":120,"_121":122,"_123":38,"_124":125,"_126":127,"_128":129,"_130":44,"_9":10},"97b291e0-92ad-44e4-8a8a-908b0cb55a92","Introducing BioHacked: Family Secrets","introducing-biohacked-family-secrets","https://pdst.fm/e/mgln.ai/e/143/traffic.megaphone.fm/SONY6035196534.mp3?updated=1643058652","file_type","audio/mpeg","file_size","duration",163,"published","2022-01-26T10:00:00Z","type","trailer","has_generated_transcript","76f01f59-6b7b-4877-915c-71b8380c5b96","BioHacked | 2. 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Defining Diego | 5. When Everything Changed

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Never lose your place, on any device