Leave & Cleave - Remaining One Flesh With Your Spouse

🌟We explored faith and prudence in the aspect of marriage. It was emphasised that both our spirit and mind must be actively engaged for us to make major life decisions. Here are some key points from the sermon;

📌 We have some heroes in the Bible who are known for their good works but had many flaws. Samson, for example, was a hero of faith but failed in certain areas of his life when he broke the instructions of consecration. Hebrews 11:32

📌It is possible to be legitimately saved yet miserable in other aspects of life. However, we can deliberately decide to strike a balance in every area of our lives.

📌We should not be overly religious in dealing with life issues. We must observe certain patterns when making marital choices.

🌟BIBLICAL EXAMPLES OF MARITAL ERRORS

👉 Isaac and Rebecca. There was open favouritism in their home, which affected their family. We must learn to love children equally. Genesis 25:28

👉 Job and His Wife Sometimes, the devil targets homes without unity. Job’s wife advised him to give up and die during their trial.

👉 Abraham and Sarah Abraham followed God’s instruction to sacrifice Isaac without involving his wife. This led to a broken home and contributed to Sarah’s death. Genesis 22:18–19; 23:1–4

🌟COMMON MISTAKES PEOPLE MAKE IN MARRIAGE.

1. Religious Mistakes

📌Being overly religious can lead to challenges in marriage. We must understand how God leads us into marriage. Galatians 1:15

📌 It’s possible to receive confirmation from God and still end up in a failed marriage if responsibilities are not taken seriously.

📌We must make decisions with both a spiritual and practical mind; there should be logical reasons behind every decision.

2. Financial Mistakes

📌Men should not just see marriage as a right to have a wife. They must serve a vision in their homes and take full responsibility.

📌Read books on marriage to make informed decisions. Even good marriages have uncertain seasons, but reading gives you context and wisdom.

3. Conflict Resolution Mistakes

📌 Know when and how to resolve conflicts. It is emotional immaturity to avoid difficult conversations. Learn to reconcile with your partner regularly.