Summary:

In this episode of the Better Divorce Podcast, Paulette Rigo discusses the complexities of divorce, particularly focusing on coercive control and its impact on families. Joined by expert Sybil Cummin, they explore the nuances of coercive control, its effects on children, and strategies for protective parenting. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding the dynamics of high conflict divorces and the need for support systems for those affected.

Takeaways:

• Coercive control is a significant factor in high conflict divorces.
• The family court system often fails to protect children from coercive control.
• Children may exhibit different behaviors based on their experiences in high conflict situations.
• Protective parents can foster resilience in their children through unconditional love.
• Understanding the dynamics of coercive control can help in navigating divorce effectively.
• Support groups and mental health resources are crucial for protective parents.
• Co-parenting can be challenging when one parent uses coercive control tactics.
• Children's responses to divorce can vary widely based on their personality and age.
• The court's definition of 'best interest' can be subjective and inconsistent.
• There is hope for families to navigate divorce positively despite challenges.

About Sybil:

Sybil is a Licensed Professional Counselor who has specialized in working with victims and survivors of coercive control and domestic violence for the last decade, including the child victims in these families. She owns a small group therapy practice in Colorado and after witnessing the constant ethical issues survivors experience in the family court system trying to protect their children she created Rising Beyond Power and Control (often referred to as The Rising Beyond Community) to help close the gaps in support for this population. Sybil hosts The Rising Beyond Podcast and is active in legislative changes in Colorado for family court reform.

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