Summary:

In this episode of the Better Divorce podcast, host Paulette Rigo speaks with parenting coach and psychotherapist Todd Sarner about the complexities of parenting in today's technology-driven world. They discuss Todd's upcoming book, 'The Calm and Connected Parent,' which emphasizes the importance of attachment in parenting. The conversation explores the challenges posed by technology, the significance of secure attachment, and the dynamics of co-parenting, especially in the context of divorce. Todd shares insights on how to balance technology use with parenting, the importance of connection, and the role of parents in fostering resilience in children.

Takeaways:

• Parenting is more about who you are than what you do.
• Attachment first parenting prioritizes relationships over discipline.
• Technology can hinder children's ability to form secure attachments.
• Parents need to agree on technology use for their children.
• Children benefit from limits and boundaries set with compassion.
• Connection is essential before setting limits with children.
• Secure attachment is the key determinant of a child's potential.
• Co-parenting requires communication and alignment between parents.
• Children often seek connection through technology when they lack it in real life.
• Understanding attachment science can improve parenting strategies.

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About Todd:

Todd Sarner is a parenting coach and psychotherapist with over 20 years of experience helping families create more connection, calm, and cooperation at home. A former Faculty Member of the Neufeld Institute, Todd has guided more than 2,000 families through the daily struggles of parenting—power struggles, meltdowns, and family stress—always with an attachment-first lens. He is the Director of Transformative Parenting and the author of the upcoming book The Calm & Connected Parent: An Attachment-First Guide to Raising Resilient Kids in the Age of Screens and AI (November 18, 2025).

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