In this episode, Carl shares a simple but powerful idea for better money conversations: ask questions that create a productive pause. Drawing on facilitation research, he explains that the quality of attention in the room matters more than the cleverness of the question—and that real insight emerges when people feel safe enough to think, not pressured to perform. Through short, disarming prompts like “What feels unsettled here?” or “What are we pretending not to notice?” Carl shows how well-placed silence and genuine curiosity can unlock honesty, deepen trust, and lead to more meaningful financial planning.

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