Dating Mistakes Anxious Attachers Make w/ Guest Valerie Rubin

Dec 19, 2025
56 mins

Episode Description

On this episode of Becoming Secure, Emily welcomes anxious attachment coach Valerie Rubin to discuss common mistakes anxious attachers make in dating and relationships and the importance of doing somatic work in healing anxious attachment!

Find Valerie's instagram here

Valerie's podcast is called: The Anxiety Recovery Podcast.

WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling?

You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)

🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️

❓Plus time for hot-seat coaching/Q&A - so you can ask questions & get immediate clarity on whether you're settling! 👑

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