In this episode of Ask The Unfaithful, James and Sam explore "Peter Pan Syndrome" (the "Eternal Child") through a Jungian and trauma-informed lens, unpacking why some unfaithful partners compulsively avoid responsibility, abjectly resist adulthood, and are determined to chase fantasy over follow-through.

This conversation goes far beyond the idea of "emotional immaturity."
You'll learn the critical difference between being unable to grow up and refusing to grow up — and why that distinction matters profoundly for betrayal trauma recovery.

In this episode, we cover:
✅ What Peter Pan Syndrome (The Eternal Child: Puer/Puella Aeternus) really means
✅ Why fantasy, novelty, and escape feel like oxygen to some unfaithful partners
✅ The difference between emotional immaturity vs. the Eternal Child (Peter Pan)
✅ Why affairs become "Neverland" — excitement without responsibility
✅ How Peter Pan dynamics retraumatize betrayed partners
✅ The Wendy role and the painful parent-child dynamic after betrayal
✅ Why accountability and consequences are existentially threatening to Peter Pans
✅ What actually forces a turning point toward adulthood
✅ How unfaithful partners with Peter Pan syndrome can grow — and what it truly requires
✅ What betrayed partners need to stop doing that keeps the pattern alive
✅ Signs of real change vs. charm, promises, and magical thinking

This episode is especially important for:
• unfaithful partners serious about recovery
• betrayed partners trying to understand "why nothing changes"
• couples stuck in a parent-child dynamic
• therapists and coaches working with betrayal trauma

PLEASE LEAVE A COMMENT TO LET US KNOW YOUR EXPERIENCES WITH THE PETER PAN / ETERNAL CHILD SYNDROME AND HOW THAT HAS AFFECTED YOU AND YOUR RELATIONAL RECOVERY.

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