What if ambition didn’t mean chasing the next title, paycheck, or performance review? In this episode of Ambition 2.0, host Amanda Goetz sits down with executive coach, podcast host, and author Amina AlTai (The Ambition Trap) to unpack what ambition really means—and why it might need a full rebrand.

Together, Amanda and Amina get real about how culture (and capitalism) have warped our relationship with ambition—especially for women—and how to reclaim it on our own terms. From the “core wounds” that drive our overachieving tendencies to the importance of rest, self-awareness, and setting boundaries, this episode is your permission slip to stop chasing and start living.

✍️What you’ll learn

• Why ambition is cyclical (seasons of push + rest)

• The five core wounds (Lise Bourbeau) & how they show up at work

• “Painful” vs “purposeful” ambition—and how to shift

• The five "whys" to separate ego goals from what truly lights you up

• The resentment line: naming needs, stating them, and negotiating

• How to spot toxic individualism and reframe success as a team sport

• Why identity is a prism (you’re more than your job title)

• Whether you’re deep in your hustle era or learning to rest without guilt, this convo will help you spot what’s fueling your ambition—pain or purpose—and redesign it for something sustainable, joyful, and yours.

  
  

  00:00 Intro

  02:14 Two camps of ambition

  03:58 Core wounds & masks

  08:10 Untangling identity from achievement (and capitalism’s worthiness trap)

  14:17 Desire, shame, and policing women’s wants

  18:34 Toxic individualism vs. team sport mentality

  22:38 Mistaking passion for purpose

  26:50 Finding your purpose

  32:45 Living above the resentment line

  
  GUEST LINKS

  Amina AlTai: https://www.instagram.com/aminaaltai/?hl=en 

  Read The Ambition Trap: https://bookshop.org/a/116169/9780593655306 

  https://www.aminaaltai.com/ 

  
  

  RESOURCES MENTIONED: 

  Lise Bourbeau’s Five Core Wounds framework

  Stephen Cope’s The Great Work of Your Life 

  
  

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